Supporting your child
As normal as possible
Your world is turned upside down when you hear that your child has cancer. At a time like this, it helps your whole family to hold on to what still feels ‘normal’. For example, letting your children continue to attend school and their regular (sports) clubs. This also applies to your child who is ill, whenever possible and with any needed adjustments. Children need clarity and predictability. Now that your child is ill, you may feel the urge to give extra treats or ease boundaries. This is understandable and completely fine in this new situation. At the same time, your child feels safe when you continue parenting the way you did before the illness.
Take the time to listen to your child’s questions and stories and be open and honest. Prepare your child for treatments and tests. The child life specialist can help you with this. You can also contact them if you have questions about parenting.
Relaxation and activities for children with cancer
Every year, many holidays and day trips are organized for children with cancer and for families of a child with cancer. The medical social worker and your child life specialist can tell you more about these. You can also find information in our newsletter and on the event calendar of the Dutch Childhood Cancer Association. At the bottom of that page, you’ll find a list of foundations that offer day trips and holidays.
More information
Leaflet “What to expect when your child has cancer”, available from the Dutch Childhood Cancer Association (also available for download)
Leaflet “Talking with your children”, available from the Dutch Childhood Cancer Association (also available for download)
This website provides tips on how to prepare your child for a medical procedure
This leaflet gives practical suggestions for words and phrases you can use to help your child during a procedure